Which is More Exciting?
When I’m writing hotwife stories, there’s one dilemma I often face that changes everything about the story’s climax: should the husband take part, or should he watch from the sidelines? Each choice shapes the story differently, and as a writer, I find this decision fascinating.
To Join or Not to Join?
After all the build-up—flirting, resisting, and finally letting go—the wife surrenders to desire. Her journey to this point is one of temptation and exploration, and I often enjoy crafting that experience from her perspective. But what about the husband? Should he dive in alongside her, or is his excitement heightened by staying on the sidelines, not knowing what’s unfolding in the other room?
In some of my stories, the husband actively participates, adding layers of intimacy and shared excitement. For example, in the Wilderness Desires series, the husband’s involvement brings a whole new dynamic to the encounter. But sometimes, it’s equally thrilling when he waits and wonders, letting his imagination fill in the gaps. That’s the case in Lorri’s Promotion, where the husband’s arousal is fuelled by mystery and anticipation.
Finding a Middle Ground
Of course, there are times when I choose a compromise. In Abby’s Unusual First Time, the husband may not fully take part, but he’s still close enough to experience the tension. It raises an interesting question: is just watching—or even just receiving a little attention—truly “taking part”?
And occasionally, I like to blur the lines entirely, as I did in Cheating on My Hotwife in the South of France and the Wife Tries Something New series. These stories explore both scenarios, with the husband switching roles, sometimes participating and other times holding back.
The Queen and Her Watchful King
For the hotwife, the thrill of newness and the sensation of being desired make her feel like royalty. But for the husband, it’s often a tug of war between arousal and jealousy—made more complex by whether he’s directly involved or left to ponder. So, I ask myself, what will bring the most excitement for both characters?
What Do You Think?
Now, I’d love to hear from you. Do you prefer stories where the husband takes part, watches from afar, or waits to hear all the juicy details later? Leave a comment below or feel free to email me at [email protected]. I’d love to know your thoughts!
Curious about the Stories?
Here are links to the stories I mentioned, in case you’d like to check them out:
- Wilderness Desires Part 1 and Part 2
- Lorri’s Promotion
- Abby’s Unusual First Time
- Cheating on My Hotwife in the South of France
- Wife Tries Something New Part 1 and Part 2
Best,
Alex
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